Exquisite Messenger

Ever felt yourself wondering why you have to be the bigger person?Do you feel personally responsible to fix everything that goes wrong in your sphere? The Universe had has done so well in presenting us with -Questions and Questions and Questions . And in our curiosity, to find answers to all these questions, more questions- surface? 🤷🏽🤷🏽    We've all been on this lane, and- it's an endless journey. "How did that happen?" "Who?" "What do I want to do in the next xyz years?" "Is he the one or him?" "Am I ready for that?" "When did they start that?"  "Who am I really?" 🙋🏽🙋🏽 Endless questions, and more!          You know that great things like industries, movies, books, technology etc all came about because someone dared to ask questions! (Think about it🤔😅) Imagine if Bill Gates gave up on asking questions, there wouldn't be Microsoft today, or imagine if Denzel Washington gave up on asking ques...

The early hours of the First Saturday in June ,the First day actually didn't sit well with me as I rushed out of the bed on hearing that I will sit for an exam that I'm supposed to write the following week. Just as I stepped outside my room, my coursemates(girls) were outside in their various night wears, while some were on the towels probably heading to the bathroom. Everyone was alarmed and disturbed by the uproar in the hostel, till we discovered it was a prank by one of a classmate😬, my gaaaaaaad! ...  You know its funny how 75% of the things we worry about in life don't happen.  I told myself I would jog that morning after my devotion, but as the weather was so cool, I resorted to sleeping . I wrapped myself in my blanket and slept😀, but immediately I heard the news, I jumped off my bed. [ to be continued....... ]       Why do we have to let bad things happen, before taking the necessary steps ? I mean, who said I have to constantly worry about the ...

Have you ever craved for a food so badly that it almost takes you on a journey to another planet 😃. -I have, very well! 😋.Social Media is Your New CV is one of those books i look forward to reading, immediately the author, Yemisi posted it on her Page, and I finally got my hands on it .It was indeed a great read,guys! 📚.  I knew Yemisi Ajeojo through a friend of mine and she really lived her book: Social Media is your New CV .   According to google, Nigeria's unemployment rate stood at  23.1 percent  of the work force in the third quarter, up from 18.1 percent a year earlier, the head of the statistics office Yemi Kale said on his official Twitter feed  on the 19th of December,2018,and this stats is quite alarming as the rate of unemployment increases year in, year out . As a graduate,a fellow Nigerian youth can no longer rely on white-collar jobs or employment into the corporate world,and this calls for the uproar of entrepreneurship which had gott...

I n the heat of the confronting issues we experience day in, day out, the universe has not been able to do justice to all of life’s formidable situations. Each passing day demands for our response to life’s changes, which might feel like letting our fish out of water, it’s alarming and truth is we’ve all experience changes at some point in our lives; the good, the bad and the ugly. The media world has made it so heartrending that all the myriad of problems just keeps on going until one feels overwhelmed and just stop being bothered about them. I mean who has time for overthinking? (Someone cannot come and die🤥😃).So, is there really light at the end of the tunnel? As the world marks the International Day of Happiness recently, my precious country, Nigeria, ranked 85 out of 156 countries. Not bad, right🤔? (At least we no carry last😎).The statistics got me thinking and all I could do is smile. The other day, a close acquiantance of mine advised me to stop saying “how are you doi...

Have you ever been on an errand or had to attend a meeting though it is sunny and hot outside; you could almost feel your skin melting? Well, I have quite a few times. Some months ago, I had to be in a meeting on a Sunday on a sunny afternoon 😁(rhymes😄). I arrived at the venue before the meeting had started. Like the good girl, I am; I was more than absorbed in the subject of discussion as the speaker spoke on one of those enticing topics; Relationship Matters. If you're someone like me, you’re automatically receptive at such moments; especially if the speaker has a great sense of humour.   From where I sat, I could see across the window some guys playing football on a field close by. The ardour in the atmosphere drew me to the scene😋. I was still interested in the discussion but had to gaze outside a few times. Knowing these guys were still playing despite the sunny ambience was more than amazing (That it was so sunny was not an exaggeration!🙋💁).     ...

       The concept of friendship has placed me in a state of besumement for a while now. Sometimes I'm left in a dilemma of what it takes to have a 'friend' or be a ' friend '. I've heard diverse opinions about what friendship entails and I'm in a constant state of making headway about all these ideas. In the last article; A TALE TO TELL: MY FRIEND, ▶ I tried to fill in the blanks about my personal conviction  on friendship . So, today's article captures a remarkable emphasis and redefinition of the word,'friendship' .I'd come to realize that many people had given up on friendship and it doesn't excite them anymore. You have probably told yourself you don't need anyone, but c'mon really?😄.      Amidst the diverse relationships anyone could ever have, nobody gets to choose their family but the average man has been priviledged to choose his friends. So, I did an informal survey and asked a couple of individuals what their thoug...