Exquisite Messenger

   It is my utmost wish that you would be able to absorb the intention behind these two big words; THRIVE or SURVIVE. Perhaps you are one of the countless number of individuals who assumed that the two words make not much of a difference. I used to walk that lane before. But like life would have it, we are not always right. Little wonder the call for this wise saying, "learning never ends".   Often times, we say to ourselves "I am going to scale through" and I thought that was cute. But what we don't realise is that we are setting up ourselves for that which is available; the lesser version. I have encountered people who affirm this notion that “you only live once" and so you can live your life the way you please. But I would love us to debunk that mentality and instead focus on the reality that is being played out here. I discovered that we are always trying to plan our next move and so we stationed ourselves in a way that life drags us around. Lif...

  H ave you ever wondered why the person next to you view things in a perspective that differs from yours? It is called the SOCIAL CONTRACT THEORY.  I do not have all the details behind the conclusion of that theory, but I can give you a glimpse about it. Of recent, I have been involved in an unconscious enquiry about “why do people act that way?” I mean what justifies our differences?     Many would love to dive into an argument with me about the subject of discussion that we act the way we act cause we are created differently .But I would love to bring to our ultimate notice that being different creatures does not justify our way of living, which entails our culture, our education, our career, our relationships and all other aspects of life.      But maybe our genetic makeup has something significant to do with our modus operandi. The other day, my dad gave me a call to inform me that he mistook his pair of eyeglasses for mine, and he ...

➠        WELCOME to my blog!!!Exquisite Messenger is a personal blog created by Marvellous Olayinka.      Have you ever been faced with a Life's situation that demands you dive into the deepest realm of your inner person?In the pursuit of the hidden treasure life has in store for us, where everybody aspire to be their own brand, Exquisite Messenger is created so you can understand the rare convictions of a Young Lady who is bent on seeing this world move to a greater level .. Lets ride this journey together..Its awesome to have you here .